Showing posts with label budget. Show all posts
Showing posts with label budget. Show all posts

Saturday, August 15, 2015

Holding pattern

I hate waiting for things..

I even hate waiting for things I don't want/like/want to do.

I've been putting off preparing for the upcoming semester; I need books, folders, notebooks, etc. and I should go get them, since I can charge them to my student account, and my VA vocational rehabilitation benefits cover the cost. But no, I haven't done it. I have about 2 weeks more to go.

Why haven't I done it, if I so loathe waiting for things?

I also loathe making trips with only one purpose. It's a huge waste of my time and gas to drive 45 minutes JUST to pick up my books for school. But I'm broke, and don't need much right now..

So I've figured out a solution!

I have a bunch of guppies that I no longer want to keep in my aquariums. There are a number of fish stores in the area. I'm going to offer them, for store trade for blackworms or something, to one of the shops.

Normally I wouldn't be trying to get rid of a pet... it's not a thing I like to do -the birds were an exception, because they aggravated my condition, and I did not choose to have them in the first place; I inherited them because I was the only person both willing and able to care for them- but in this case, it's either I get rid of them now, or wait until there are so many of them that they die off.

Because that's what guppies do.. they breed. a lot. Unlike mammals, they can't really be sterilized (nor, seriously, would I bother..) and I have so many plants in my tank that the babies don't get eaten at nearly the rate necessary to maintain population levels. I had 3 fish for a long time, I now have 2 dozen, all born after January of this year. I want to replace them with Endlers, which is another type of guppy (more or less), and so they breed just as quickly, however unlike my common guppies, endlers are actually worth selling... incredibly difficult to come across pure genetic stock (with paperwork) because they so easily breed with other guppies, but worth the investment. It beats giving away babies every few months or hoping they get eaten

So I want to multi-task my trip. And I don't feel like catching a buttload of tiny guppy fry (they are about 1-2 months old presently, just barely big enough for reliable sexing). And I don't really feel like going to get my textbooks.

This is what procrastination looks like.. It's not just not doing things, it's finding really "legitimate" reasons for not doing things, and sticking with those rationalizations as though life itself depended upon it.

But really, why would I want to be productive in my last 2 weeks of freedom for the summer?

After all, I have 4 cats to take to the vet, 6 months worth of canned cat food to buy, cat trees and shelves to build and install, an aquarium to design and build, gardening to do, rooms to clean, etc etc etc etc etc. The list never ends; I could get a lot done, if only I wanted to.

So what's wrong with putting it off a bit more? I'm already in a holding pattern for future events. Might as well extend that to the other tasks needing completion. Then I can get everything done at once, and feel exceptionally accomplished.

After all, I did just do my laundry. That's something.

Thursday, July 16, 2015

What's good for me...

I'm trying to talk boyfriendicus in to letting me add 2 more cats to my home (an adorable bonded pair of 8-year-old neutered male Siamese mix, just like one of my existing cats but with darker coloring).

He's not as thrilled at the prospect as I am, even though he doesn't do the labor of love for them; feeding, water, boxes, the bulk of attention and "training", and the majority of constructing toys and cat furniture, that's my job, and that's totally fine with me. They are, after all, my cats, and I am, after all, home a lot more often. My cats fill the social void in my life, especially when I'm not feeling well enough to be social with people. They are my companions, and I don't mind doing things for them, although I do sometimes have difficulty finding the drive to do said tasks in a timely manor.

I've been reading a lot lately about how having multiple cats actually makes said cats interact more pleasantly, and that, I think, is something my existing cats would like. As it stands, I have one very active cat, Scooter, a 2 year-old Siamese mix, and on not-so-active cat, a 7 year-old domestic short-hair named Gin (pronounced ghii-n, which is Japanese for "silver") who's communication skills are.. well.. not the best. Giving them a pair of cats to befriend increases the chance that both existing cats will find something to like, and should greatly reduce the existing friction. And that's what I want.

Yes, one additional cat can serve that function as well, but 2 give more of a buffer. When resources are plentiful, cats do best in groups. Goes straight against everything we've been told, no? But there it is. Cats are very intelligent, and very social, and just like people, they want friends to share activities with. If there are only 2 cats, and they don't have the same personality and interests, there will be friction as they continually ask each other for things they won't get. Just like with human friends, though, even 2 very similar cats won't like all the same activities. It's rare to find a human who likes skydiving, playing classical piano, going to clubs, and, say, cooking... all in the same person. Similarly, it's difficult to find a cat who will like everything the existing cats like, especially since the existing cats are so different in personality.

I've explained the logic, but it's so counter to everything we grow up hearing and believing that it's not going well on the convincing end. His concerns seem to focus around the litter boxes, and the need to change them more often. I don't see this being the case, as I strictly follow the "one box per cat plus one" rule, though I would probably do "one per cat plus one per 2" so I would have 6, not 5. Since I use shredded paper from craigslist for litter, this wouldn't cost any more than it does now, though the compost pile will grow more quickly. With the right number of boxes, the frequency of changes shouldn't be a concern, nor should it be significantly different than now.

The food cost is another issue he's citing. And I'll give him that. Canned food is a bit pricey, but I buy it in bulk every 6 months when I get my school money, so that when I'm broke, it's OK; I will still have food for them. The cost of food would double from $200/6mths to ~$400/6mths. Most people pay that in litter, alone. The place I buy canned food has the best prices I've found for a quality selection (~$0.30/can), and they do a bulk-order discount, so for every 10 flats (box of 24 cans) I get one free flat. I'd be buying 30 flats every 6 months, so I'd get 3 flats free. We have a basement we never use for anything, so I have no major concerns over where to put it all, and the saved effort of going to get it when I run out is more than worth the effort of buying it all at once.

As for the time and amusement needs, that's the joy of multiple cats; they spend time with each other, and it reduces the interaction need with humans. This isn't to say I don't care to spend a bunch of time with the cats, especially 4 of them, but the type of interaction would be different. More companionship, less guided play, because they can play together a lot better than they can play with a human. My cats currently have a bunch of pent-up energy that we can't properly discharge; Scooter has a boatload of energy, and assumes that all toys are for him all the time, which prevents my more relaxed cat from feeling comfortable playing. 2 more cats could even this out nicely, and allow me special time with the first cat I adopted on my own, Gin.

He seems to think that older cats are not as good as the younger ones, but as it turns out, they just take longer to acclimate. Indeed, older cats are likely to be better in the long run, because they were ripped from a happy home through no fault of their own, and just want a new friend or two. These two would be roughly the same age as Gin, so they should have the same level of maturity,if not the same level of activity. That's a good setup, and sure you could do it with just one cat, but it doesn't give the same friendship opportunities for the cats, especially when they aren't the same personality.

The current dynamic in the house isn't the greatest. Boyfriendicus doesn't seem too interested in learning (on his own) how to be friends with my cats, although after I explained how just being in the room with him was a sign from Gin that she was ready to be his friend, he took to acknowledging her presence and giving her kitty kisses (slowly-blinked eyes). This means, to me, that the whole situation could very easily change, and for the better, with just a bit of work from the two of us, and that translates DIRECTLY to cohesion with a new set of cats, as well. Every trick he learns to interact with Gin, who is really a very sweet kitty with a rough history and trust issues, is one more trick to apply to new cats.

Every effort given to the cats we have now is an effort that will have much weight when the existing cats show the new ones the ropes "see that big human? The one who who isn't home all day? Yeah, he's completely clueless, but he's trying, go give him some love". Cats can communicate complex ideas, just like we can. We just don't understand them, and so assume it doesn't happen. This, I think, is the point above all others that should encourage friendship; if you have it with one, you are more likely to have it with the others. They understand effort, and they appreciate it.

He's concerned that doubling the cat population in the house will lead to new problems, but I've seen the way Gin and Scooter interact with the neighborhood cats from their outdoor 8x9x9 enclosure. They want to be social, but on their own terms. That is to say, they want to be social, just not with each other, because their needs aren't being properly met with the current setup. If Scooter could get his play out with other active cats, he could leave Gin in peace, and she might actually like him. She tries really hard to like him now, and even grooms him occasionally, she just can't be his best friend right now because he pesters her for play.

My conundrum is this; I really, honestly, think 2 cats, especially an older but active pair which are significantly less likely to be adopted (both because they are older, and because there are two which cannot be separated), would be a good fit for us. Boyfriendicus brought up the idea of getting another cat, so it's clear that he enjoys them, and I've always had cats, and view pats as a "the more the merrier" situation. Their behaviors and interactions are fascinating, and I feel good when I make them feel good.

I want to convince him that it's our best best for a happy home, but at the same time, I respect his opinion, and he shares this home, so it impacts him, as well. The last time I went to the shelter to get a cat, I tried to convince him to get 2, and he said no. We should have gotten 2 then, and I probably wouldn't be looking now.

I did tell him if we got 2 more, I wouldn't want more until one of them died, and it's true; 4 is all I want, it's my kitty limit. I just want there to be at least one cat available most of the time for affection, and I want them all happy. Those aren't such bad goals, especially for a household with no intention of having kids.

Thursday, July 9, 2015

The heat is coming

It's been going back and forth between chilly and almost too hot.. I'm really waiting for the 2-3 week span of over 100 days that we normally get near the end of summer.

But, for those of you who live somewhere that doesn't have winter 2/3 of the year, this is probably the perfect time to share some stay-cool-cheap tips that I've used.

I'm not a big fan of overly-cold cooling methods, so anything involving ice in direct contact with any part of the body, or very cold showers... I'm not including those.. :p

We don't use AC, even though we have a window unit. I think since we got it from my step-dad, some 3 years ago, we've used it twice, for a day or two at a time at most. I'm not sure if that says something about the house, us, or the shit weather we get, or just that the other tricks work well enough that that sort of electricity drain isn't necessary. Whatever the reason, I've gone most of my life without AC, including the 3 years I spent in Houston, and I don't see that changing now, just because I can stretch my budget to afford it, if I eally really wanted to.

So I imagine I'm not the only person who either can't afford or doesn't want to pay for AC, yet a lot of chronic pain sufferers don't deal well with heat. In the spirit of making life better, I thought I might share some crazy tricks that really help you beat the heat, cliche though that statement may be.

On to the crazy ideas!

Everyone says "use a fan in a window" but I've got an improvement over such an easy concept. I used to live in a house with no functional venting on the second floor; no heat, no cool. I put a box fan into a window, airflow pointed out, and duct-taped cardboard around the fan, functionally sealing it so that air couldn't blow back in around it. In summer, a second window -usually in the basement, but any shaded window in a cool room will work- is opened just a bit to allow air movement, and the fan is left on indefinitely. This works best for a bedroom window or any apartment window, as larger houses generally need a bit more than this. My current house (~1500 sqft) is a bit too large for this to be the only life-saver. If you have a large enough space, and it isn't anything near air-tight, this can also be used in winter, even in the coldest of areas. I know that sounds ridiculous, but it's entirely true, and I've done it. It's probably not great for the heat bill, and almost certainly not better than a space heater, but when your options are be cold or waste a little heat, well the answer seems kinda obvious.

Use white tagboard or paint some cardboard white, and tape it to any windows that get direct sunlight. A matte finish works best, and reflects more light than gloss or semigloss (crazy, right?). This will reflect a good amount of the sun, and prevent it from heating up your space. If you can put the white material between the window sashes and the screen/storm window, even better, because the warmed material would never come into direct contact with the air in the room. If your area allows it, foil can also be used with great success for this, however care must be taken; if installed poorly into a window that gets direct light, even for 5 minutes a day, the reflection and concentrating of the light rays CAN AND DO melt or discolor siding, even on the neighbors' houses. Trust me on this one; I used to work warranty claims for a window company (FYI, that is never covered by warranty, and usually not by insurance unless the damage was done to you and not by you)

If your room is quite dark because you are trying to keep the sun out, try putting mirrors around in places where light does come in (because hey, if you aren't using AC, you probably have a window open somewhere!) such as a mirror across from the window, or even a few under the window, angled to reflect light. This will reflect the light around the room, increasing how bright it looks. Not strictly a heat-buster, but since you won't be keeping as many artificial lights on, it can certainly help! If possible, open windows should be in shaded locations, but enough light still comes in for mirrors to help substantially.

Swap your lights for LED bulbs, and unplug all electronics which aren't in use. This seems more like an energy-saving tip, but remember; energy converts into heat in all electronic devices we have, bar none. We don't have the capacity to make waste-heat-free devices, currently, since heat is one of the main byproducts of the electrical resistance required for said devices to work. LED light bulbs produce significantly less heat than other types of lights, and because of this lack of waste, they use a lot less energy. I have replaced all of my commonly-used lights with LEDs, and I adore them. I get mine at Menards for about $4 each, and they save at least that in the first year of use, if swapping from incandescent. They stay cool enough that I can handle even a still-on light bulb that has been on all day. Lights used infrequently can be replaced with CFL bulbs, as well, and even that helps. To make this more understandable; the bulbs I use are 65 watt equivalent, which means the same light output as a 65 watt incandescent bulb. For a 65-equivalent CFL, the power draw is 21 watts, and for an LED, it's about 9. Just think about that; same light output between the incandescent and LED, but 56 watts less energy, which means 56 watts less HEAT.. per bulb!

Unplugging devices is basically the same concept. All electronic devices draw power whenever they are plugged in, even though, to my understanding, they have an internal switch that is supposed to prevent that. Over time, it wears down, and current feeds into the device, even though it's off. This is especially true of large devices like TVs, game consoles, and computers, which use a lot of energy, and anything with an LED indicator light. If the light is on, you are wasting electricity and generating heat. Even if the light isn't on, if the device is plugged in, you will be using power. My solution was to plug everything in to power strips that have on/off breaker switches, organized into power groups; stuff not used daily -video game systems, for example- have a power strip that stays off most of the time, while commonly-used devices like TV and computer are wired to a single strip so they can easily be turned on during the day. The difference between having the devices plugged directly into an outlet vs. using a power strip is that when you turn off the power strip, the circuit is interrupted, and no power flows through the strip, so it can't even reach the device to be wasted. You can't do that with standard outlets (although GFCI outlets are good for this).

Invest in a small kiddie pool or a large sturdy tote. I know, whaaaaat? Even if you live in an apartment, a cool foot soak can easily turn even the most miserably hot, still night, into an entirely comfortable (and skin-nourishing!!) experience. If you have enough space in your living room, move the table and set up a cool foot soak (if you use a kiddie pool, get one that is hard-sided; you do NOT want to risk it going flat and flooding the living room). Water contact causes you to lose body heat 25 times faster than air contact, which is why you get hypothermia so much faster in water than air, but the same applies to small temperature differences, as well. As long as the water is colder than about 80 degrees F, it will help you feel better. As a bonus, when you no longer need or want your foot soak, you can use the water (assuming you didn't add anything to it) to water houseplants!

Close off any view of outside, and watch a string of winter-themed movies or shows. Seriously, it really does help. Since we generally watch winter-themed movies in winter, and the sight of snow reminds us of cold, this is purely a psychological trick, but a reasonably effective one. Just resist the temptation to look out the window to verify the weather, and allow your suspension of disbelief to take over.

I find that cold showers just make me miserable really quickly afterwards; your body is convinced that it's now cold, and you thus need to conserve body heat. As contrary as it sounds, though, a hot shower on a hot day is marvelous. For much the same reason as the cooling problem, the body thinks it's REALLY hot after a hot shower, and that it needs to cool very quickly. Because any temp post-shower is cooler than during-shower, you feel better, and the effect lasts longer. Best to air-dry. I find this actually makes me quite chilled for a long while, while a cold shower leads me to sweat within minutes of getting out.

If you want to do outdoor activities, pick up a parasol or cheap umbrella; the sun/shade difference is really quite impressive, and you aren't stuck hanging out under trees. I took a parasol on a whale-watching boat ride a few years ago, and it was easily the best choice I've made about sun protection in a long time. A parasol/umbrella and a utility clamp combine to make an excellent chair shade on-the-cheap, and the whole setup is great for sitting around the outdoor kiddie pool, soaking feet and having some frozen drinks.

Frozen drinks bring me to my next point, though; they don't cool you down. Not really. They may make you feel cooler, briefly, but similar to a cold shower, the extreme cold temp of the ice actually shocks your system, and can increase heat output. The best thing to drink on a hot day is just-cooler-than-room-temp water, something in the 60-80 degree range, depending on preference. Just like the shower trick, though, you CAN drink hot fluids when it's hot out, and for a very similar reason, it will make you feel cooler after a brief uncomfortable period.

If you have a desk fan and a spray bottle, you can mist yourself when it's really bad, but beware; after the water dries, you'll feel warmer than you were before. This trick is really only good for the worst of the hot days, because you have to keep spraying yourself to stay cool. It does work, just not the best.

With a bit of metal tube, an aquarium water pump (from amazon, you can get a decent one for about $8-12) a foam cooler, some ice, and a fan, you can make a dehumidifier/air conditioner. This will only work until the ice melts completely, so it's not really a long-term solution, but it can be super useful on really humid days. You can probably find a way to add dry ice to it to make it last longer, but I don't really know where to get that around here, so I haven't tried it. Either way, I found directions for it online. There are also directions to convert an old window AC unit into a dehumidifier for the house, but I haven't tried that, either.

If you want cold coffee (iced-style) but don't want it watered down (seriously, eew) you can pour what's left of your pot into ice cube trays and pop them in the freezer. Add a few of these to your coffee for a wonderful iced-but-not-thinned morning cup. Whiskey stones are also quite good for this. Avoid using those plastic water-filled ice cube things, though; not only does heat tend to increase leaching of chemicals from plastics, the sudden shift in temp can cause them to break.

If you have access to your ventilation system, and especially if you keep your furnace in the basement, keep your fans blowing year-round. If your always-on furnace fan isn't sufficient, consider investing in in-line vent fans; they aren't too pricey, and they drastically increase air movement, though they do tend to be a bit on the loud side. If you have the option, have your air drawn from the basement in summer; the basement is a natural heat sink, generally staying right around 55 degrees F (~12C) so circulating that air will help keep everything much cooler. This trick works best when you keep it running this way for days at a time, because it does take time for the heat to leach out and equalize.

Just like with heating in winter, close off any rooms (ideally, corner or south-facing rooms) not in use, but keep windows open in them. The closed rooms will act as a heat/cool buffer zone, and help to regulate the overall temp, while also decreasing the cubic footage that needs to stay cool. By keeping windows open, with a fan blowing out if you have one to spare, you ensure that heat and moisture don't build up beyond the ambient outdoor levels, preventing humidity-related damage as well as preventing a pocket of excessive heat from being in contact with the rest of the space (through walls/door). This helps most when it's hotter outside than inside, and you don't have windows open throughout the house. Rooms can be opened again when the temp falls below whatever comfort point you like, to maximize air flow. I have a second floor south-facing room that spans the entire front of the house, and that sucker gets amazingly hot very ridiculously quickly. Closing it off, having light-blocking curtains, and keeping the windows open has made HUGE improvements to the temp of the rest of the house. And with just one room!

If you have a window AC, and more than one story, put it somewhere on the second floor, close to the middle of the structure or near the stairs, make sure your ventilation system is running, and put a circulating fan in front of it to blow the air into the hall. This can keep most average-size homes a reasonable temperature, but don't expect it to keep the whole house at 50 degrees. Cool air, being more dense, sinks, and the heated air tends to be concentrated on the second floor anyway, so this strategy is very effective. As a bonus, if you have a non-bedroom you can put the unit in, it will keep noise levels manageable, and should keep most rooms fairly comfortable. This couples very nicely with the window fan with cardboard mentioned above.

Share your odd tips and tricks for staying cool, I love learning news hacks to make life easier!!!